The most frequently asked question in the world of mysticism: How do I find my soulmate?
In almost every reading, therapy session, or spiritual conversation, the same question comes up: "How do I find my soulmate?"
This isn't just romantic curiosity—it's a deep yearning for meaning, partnership, and inner home. In this post, we'll delve into the depths: What is a soulmate according to Kabbalah, what truly "blocks" us, and how to combine energetic work with practical steps—in a way that respects both the heart and reality.
What is "Zivug" (spiritual union) from a Kabbalistic perspective?
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Soulmate pairing : A connection where one feels rest , mutual support, and growth.
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Correction : Some relationships come to heal patterns and teach boundaries—even if they aren’t “forever.”
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Choice and timing : There are potentials in consciousness—but their manifestation depends on choices, inner work, and timing (seasons, lunar cycles, personal periods in numerology/astrology).
Common "blocks" to love (and how to identify them)
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Core beliefs : "It always ends badly for me," "There are no good men/women."
Sign: Cynicism, running away before it gets too deep. -
Fear of intimacy : Difficulty asking for, agreeing to receive love, or setting boundaries.
Symptom: Relationships with low emotional availability. -
Emotional memory/past pain : unresolved separation/betrayal.
Sign: A rigid comparison to previous partners. -
Energy overload/evil eye : A "heavy" atmosphere, a house cluttered with objects, fatigue.
Symptom: General stagnation—at work, at home, and in motivation.
Quick self-test:
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Am I emotionally available?
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Do I know how to ask for what's important to me?
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Does the home "speak of love" (smell, order, a quiet corner)?
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Am I cultivating a consistent routine for energetic cleansing?
Cleansing, balancing, and opening to the frequency of love.
Daily Energetic Hygiene (10 min)
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Water + salt/lavender in a hand or foot bath (3–7 min).
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Breathing : Inhale 4, hold 4, exhale 6 (5 rounds).
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Intention : A short and clear sentence: “I choose a safe, respectful, and growing love.”
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Home : Ventilation, purification with incense, soft music, pink/white candle.
Why is "this" the most frequently asked question?
Because love touches three levels: meaning, belonging, and healing. It shows us where we are free—and where it's time to change.
When you combine energetic cleansing , inner honesty , and small steps in the practical world , the gateway to partnership opens—naturally.
Quick summary for easy reference.
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Everyday: Water + Salt, Breath, Intention.
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21 days: Candle, spray/anointing, writing, imagination, mantra, gratitude.
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Practice: Boundaries, communication, an empty drawer at home.
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Timing: Friday/Venus, new/full moon, fixed hour.
A gentle call to action.
If you feel that a certain block is "not opening," you can delve deeper:
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Numerological/Kabbalistic diagnosis by phone for mapping patterns and timings.
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Remote energy healing for frequency alignment and gentle cleansing.
(Simply contact me through the website to schedule an appointment.)
The Ritual - Step by Step
🔥 1. Start with a natural beeswax love candle.
The candle represents both the fire of love and natural protection (beeswax is considered a shield against negative energies).
During the lighting, say:
“I invite pure, safe, and protected love into my life. Love that is a wish come true.”
🌸 2. Light incense and offer it to Venus.
Gently move the smoke around the body and the room.
Venus incense opens the energetic field to the frequency of beauty, attraction, and marital harmony.
✍️ 3. Energetic writing – as if it's already happening.
Take a blank sheet of paper and write down 10 characteristics/feelings about your current relationship.
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"I live in a harmonious relationship full of passion and mutual support."
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"I wake up next to a partner who loves, appreciates, and supports me."
🌹 4. Seal of Love – Love Oil or Love Manifest Stick
Here comes the reinforcement phase:
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With love oil – lightly dab 2–3 drops onto the invitation.
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With Love Manifest Stick – gently apply to the edges of the page or to the palm of your hand and heart.
You can also use the stick at the entrance to the house, in the corners of the room, and on yourself – to open up the entire space to the energy of love.
💦 5. Halo of Love Spray or The One
Spray around the body and heart to clear energetic residue and recharge the aura with a magnetic frequency of love.
This is the final "key" that transforms your aura into a field that attracts the right relationship.
🔒 6. Folding and Embedding
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Fold the note three times towards yourself (to draw the energy towards you).
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Place it in a small organza or cotton bag.
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Place it under your pillow at night – that way the intention works even during dreams.
Why is this ritual so powerful?
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Fire (candle) – releases energy and summons a wish.
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Scent (incense + oil/stick) – bypasses the intellect and reaches the subconscious.
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Writing – solidifies the intention on a physical level.
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Halo Spray – Cleans and creates a magnetic halo.
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Folding and placing – a symbolic act of "embedding intention".
Summary
This ritual combines natural and sacred materials with conscious energy work:
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Natural beeswax love candle – for summoning + protection.
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Venus incense - for opening the energy field.
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Love Manifest Stick – for a personal imprint and fragrant connection.
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Aura Spray for Love / The One – for cleansing and activating the aura.
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Writing and folding – turning intention into reality.
💗 When done consistently, especially during the waxing moon or at the beginning of the month, an accumulating energy is created that naturally and safely brings love into one's life.
Intuition and emotion – your personal path to love ✨
It's important to remember – there are countless mystical tools, rituals, and products for summoning love: candles, incense, aura sprays, oils, and more.
But the most powerful thing is connecting to your personal intuition .
Everyone feels differently – sometimes it's a certain scent that attracts, sometimes a color or a particular stone that speaks to the heart. The truth is that there is no "one size fits all" product.
💗 My recommendation: Go to the love collection in the store, listen to your feelings, and let your intuition guide you to the tool that feels right for you.
Because in the end – the heart always knows the way.
👉 Discover the Love Collection On my site, let your emotions choose the tool that will open your heart and invite true love.
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